the worst things you've done to me
- made a joke about me taking pills
- ghosted me for 5 days
didn't apologize for ghosting me
- ghosted me, again, when communication about boundaries was brought into the equation
- disregard the postcard idea because it wasn't convenient for you
- characterized me as someone you didn't want to do that “bpd up and down shit” with
- failed to validate me at all when i sent uncropped
- fail to reassure me in general
fail to reassure me of your feelings fail to reassure me we can play another time when you cancel/rain check
- fail to take my feelings into consideration regarding most communication
you don't think there's stock in reassurance despite me explaining my brain is wired differently