notes
- told martin what happened
- explained who i was, was met with initial confusion up until he remembered [afterthought]
- defensive
- claimed i was rude and pushy about a next date, disliked i told him repeatedly that it was on him to reschedule if he was still interested
- claimed there were no issues about the fact that he never asked either vivian or myself questions about us (????)
- said “we just handle things differently, clearly, and we're incompatible. that's just how it is”
- said “thanks for telling me”
- was quick to interrupt my story
- didn't really listen to my side, just kept defending his own side
- didn't really acknowledge the fact that he shit talked me despite me bringing it up
asking christy
- why was i so okay with doing this?