I don't want to cum

I love orgasms, of course. They're amazing. But when I'm enjoying a playmate, delighting in her body, I really don't want to cum. Cumming marks the end of fucking, and I love fucking more than I love cumming.

Porn would have you believe that most guys can stay rock hard after cumming, but porn would also have you believe that every stepmother is fucking her stepson and all black men have huge cocks. The truth, for me, is that I soften almost immediately after cumming, and I'm fully flaccid in just a couple of minutes. This happens even if I'm still very much into the sex, and I generally can't get hard again for at least 15 minutes—sometimes not for 30 minutes to an hour—no matter how fucking sexy my playmate is or how much I would like to continue fucking her.

Now, you might be thinking to yourself: You can continue to be sexual and to have sex without an erect penis. You're correct, of course, and I certainly do continue—with toys, with my fingers, with my mouth—when my penis isn't an option. I love fucking in all its forms, and I can have a lot of fun without involving my dick. That said, there's nothing in the world I'd rather be doing than fucking. Proper fucking, with my bare cock inside a warm pussy.

I want that to last. Every minute—every second—that I get to experience that blissful physical union with a woman is a moment I would like to stretch into eternity. So, even though I need an orgasm at the end of a good fuck, I don't want to cum.

No filling until I've had my fill 😉