Basic Teaching Strategy
if you have a kid gone into a tyrannical rogue state of emotional, physical, and spiritual disregulation you don’t talk to him anymore about rulse you don’t prompt him, lecture him, remind him (he’s openly at war with the world and not logical)
this is not a hard one, actually all along you have had stuff/something they want if you didn’t, they wouldn’t talk to you at all maybe it’s attention maybe it’s candy maybe it’s a prize they could earn if you have nothing, then fuck you you’re an idiot you should’ve seen this coming
if you didn’t see this coming then you have to consider taking things from them which is wayyyy harder than simply witholding something they already want i’m an expert at ignoring annoying behavior and will starve that kid to death of it until he talks to me safetly not screaming and shit if you have stuff people want, you can give it out for behaviors that create a prosocial environment. afterall you’re the teacher.
so you withold the thing the asshole wants and prepare to withstand the temper tantrum, get support get a bunch of adults in the room just watching calmy then tell him, get it the fuck together or we’re escorting you out to scream by yourself where it doesn’t bother other people who are just trying to color, do worksheets, and watch kids shit on the tube so that’s that. and your muscle does it’s job. safely escorts them out, DON’T NEED TO BREAK PEOPLE’S ARMS shouldn’t be no injuries this isn’t that hard either
they can come back when they play nice and operate in good faith. or they can yell threats for hours in the calming area, an open gym space with mats. banging on walls and shit. that’s fine. we move on with our scheduled program.